I get sexual urges and feel bad. Is this a normal way to feel? Do other 14 year olds feel the same way? I do not know and I am too scared to ask anyone in case I’m not normal.

I’ve got some good news. You are perfectly normal. When we go through puberty we get thumped with all these new and confusing emotions. Many of these new emotions are sexual and we just don’t know what to do with them. We have to ''grow into'' these new emotions and that takes a while.
Masturbating is a good way to handle some of these strong, sexual feelings. Masturbating is normal and healthy and most people do it even if they don’t talk about it. Just make sure you do it in the privacy of your own room.

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